We all know that husband and wife get along
with the need to have a good psychological, if the psychological state of the
poor will affect the relationship between the husband and wife, then what is
the psychological?
Do not know the dedication
Harvard University, a study has shown that
in life to help others, to make yourself feel more happy. But in modern
society, people are willing to selfless dedication and less, more and more
people square accounts in every detail. If you have a plan for what I can get
from it, do it, it's not worth it.
Lack of faith
After more than 20 years of sprint like
wealth after the race, some people in addition to make money, do not know what
the goals and the pursuit of life in the end is what, and even do not know what
they want. This lack of faith and the ideal state, it is difficult to produce a
long, happy happiness.
Old love comparison
The modern man put the main energy into the
competition, than the position, than the house, than the wealth...... Than to
go, people's hearts only desire, no happiness. When people pursue is not how to
be happy, but how to be happier bag
manufacturer than others, the happiness will leave you.
Too anxious
Purchase, parenting, family pension burden.
That is because workplace promotion space concerns the working pressure;
friends and colleagues between relationships of processing have become the
pressure source of the Chinese people. In big cities, regardless of the old,
young people or children, more in a restless anxiety state, which makes people
can not feel happy from the bottom of my heart.
Not content
As the saying goes,
"contentment", but fewer and fewer people's satisfaction, the house
want to change more, the work want to trade, money to earn more... These
desires, made endless toil, struggle to strive for the summit of the
"brilliant" on.
Mutual distrust
Although the society is highly developed,
people's minds are gradually alienated. Now more and more people tend to
"right brain" mode of thinking, while the right brain in charge of
individual, power, status, for the feeling of happiness is 0 degrees. Happiness
comes from feeling left, a lot of time happiness in life is not less, but
people no bag factory longer held
ability to experience happiness.
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