2015年7月10日星期五

Easily affect the couple's emotional psychology



We all know that husband and wife get along with the need to have a good psychological, if the psychological state of the poor will affect the relationship between the husband and wife, then what is the psychological?


Do not know the dedication
Harvard University, a study has shown that in life to help others, to make yourself feel more happy. But in modern society, people are willing to selfless dedication and less, more and more people square accounts in every detail. If you have a plan for what I can get from it, do it, it's not worth it.

Lack of faith
After more than 20 years of sprint like wealth after the race, some people in addition to make money, do not know what the goals and the pursuit of life in the end is what, and even do not know what they want. This lack of faith and the ideal state, it is difficult to produce a long, happy happiness.

Old love comparison
The modern man put the main energy into the competition, than the position, than the house, than the wealth...... Than to go, people's hearts only desire, no happiness. When people pursue is not how to be happy, but how to be happier bag manufacturer than others, the happiness will leave you.

Too anxious
Purchase, parenting, family pension burden. That is because workplace promotion space concerns the working pressure; friends and colleagues between relationships of processing have become the pressure source of the Chinese people. In big cities, regardless of the old, young people or children, more in a restless anxiety state, which makes people can not feel happy from the bottom of my heart.

Not content
As the saying goes, "contentment", but fewer and fewer people's satisfaction, the house want to change more, the work want to trade, money to earn more... These desires, made endless toil, struggle to strive for the summit of the "brilliant" on.

Mutual distrust
Although the society is highly developed, people's minds are gradually alienated. Now more and more people tend to "right brain" mode of thinking, while the right brain in charge of individual, power, status, for the feeling of happiness is 0 degrees. Happiness comes from feeling left, a lot of time happiness in life is not less, but people no bag factory longer held ability to experience happiness.

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