Father usually busy with work to accompany
the child's time is very few, in the limited time to accompany the child's
father how to improve the quality of the company? How can we achieve efficient
company, promote parent-child affection?
1.Micro time
Cultivate parent-child relationship is not
necessarily to take a long time to accompany the child, in fact, a few minutes
to let the child feel the father full of love. After entering the house, first
give baby a hug, let him feel the father of miss; in the field trip, a day to
give children make a phone call, greetings, and children video communication;
late time in advance to the children call, let the children feel the father did
not work just because ignored him. Such a simple action and a few minutes of
love, the child will be able to sense the love of the father.
2.Parent-child interaction
According to the survey show that children
in early childhood and his father's influence to his later life, affecting his
relationship with colleagues, marriage, so his father's company in the
development of children has a crucial role. If the father in the child's
childhood life, the lack of the relationship between the child and his father
naturally not close, and this is difficult to make up for the future. Daddy can
spare some time to accompany the child to play, let the child better experience
to the parent child, in such a game can promote the exchange of children and
father, feeling natural.
3.Put away the harsh face
Is the image of father in the traditional
concept, father is always deep, unsmiling, treat the child demanding, rarely
encourage children. But this bag
manufacturer kind of education is out of date, what society needs now is
encouraging father, that father and children can very good communication, and
the children make friends, Dad, and the kids can more intimate. With respect to
the harsh and serious father, kind to encourage the father of the more popular
children's welcome, often hug the child to praise the child's effect will be
better.
4.Time to accompany the child to focus
How much dad is watching the phone while
watching the phone, and from time to time to pick up a phone, perhaps to give the
child a story, the story is only about the beginning of my father went on the
phone. To spend time with children focus some of it, put down the phone, turn
off the computer, forget about work, to accompany the child to put all your
heart into, and children playing games together, give the child story; to share
their stories to accompany the child and the child can, can close the
relationship between the father and the child.
Don't let the father in the child's growth,
the father is not a cold call, is a can really give him a sense of security, to
him on the shoulder. Multiple pumping some time to spend with their children,
to accompany children more time to concentrate on some. Don't let the lack of
companionship as a regret, because nothing can bag factory replace to accompany their
children grow up.
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