2015年7月22日星期三

How can my father accompany the child?



Father usually busy with work to accompany the child's time is very few, in the limited time to accompany the child's father how to improve the quality of the company? How can we achieve efficient company, promote parent-child affection?


1.Micro time
Cultivate parent-child relationship is not necessarily to take a long time to accompany the child, in fact, a few minutes to let the child feel the father full of love. After entering the house, first give baby a hug, let him feel the father of miss; in the field trip, a day to give children make a phone call, greetings, and children video communication; late time in advance to the children call, let the children feel the father did not work just because ignored him. Such a simple action and a few minutes of love, the child will be able to sense the love of the father.

2.Parent-child interaction
According to the survey show that children in early childhood and his father's influence to his later life, affecting his relationship with colleagues, marriage, so his father's company in the development of children has a crucial role. If the father in the child's childhood life, the lack of the relationship between the child and his father naturally not close, and this is difficult to make up for the future. Daddy can spare some time to accompany the child to play, let the child better experience to the parent child, in such a game can promote the exchange of children and father, feeling natural.

3.Put away the harsh face
Is the image of father in the traditional concept, father is always deep, unsmiling, treat the child demanding, rarely encourage children. But this bag manufacturer kind of education is out of date, what society needs now is encouraging father, that father and children can very good communication, and the children make friends, Dad, and the kids can more intimate. With respect to the harsh and serious father, kind to encourage the father of the more popular children's welcome, often hug the child to praise the child's effect will be better.

4.Time to accompany the child to focus
How much dad is watching the phone while watching the phone, and from time to time to pick up a phone, perhaps to give the child a story, the story is only about the beginning of my father went on the phone. To spend time with children focus some of it, put down the phone, turn off the computer, forget about work, to accompany the child to put all your heart into, and children playing games together, give the child story; to share their stories to accompany the child and the child can, can close the relationship between the father and the child.

Don't let the father in the child's growth, the father is not a cold call, is a can really give him a sense of security, to him on the shoulder. Multiple pumping some time to spend with their children, to accompany children more time to concentrate on some. Don't let the lack of companionship as a regret, because nothing can bag factory replace to accompany their children grow up.

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