Interpersonal social psychology

Social itself is a deep knowledge, read him, then you will be interpersonal communication capability. Only by mastering social psychology, in order to fundamentally go interpersonal communication, interpersonal communication so that also seemed more relaxed.

First, understand the people and humanity Improve their interpersonal skills and mastery of the first step in successful relationships yes. Understanding and humanity can be simply summarized as DD " in accordance with the nature of people to identify with them ," " put themselves agree that people " , rather than using their own vision to look at other people , but not to impose their will on others . The first is the interest of their own people , not interested in you ! Words DD than a person concerned about their attention to you a thousand times . Recognizes that " people first concern is not your own ," this is the key to life . Second, how to subtly talk with others When you talk with people , choose a topic they are most interested . They are most interested in the topic , what is it ? Was their own ! These few words from your dictionary removed out " me, myself , my ." Use another word , one of the most powerful human language the word to replace it , " You ." Are you interested in the conversation does not matter whether your audience is interested in the conversation . When you talk to people when talking about each other, and guide each other talk about themselves . So you can become a popular conversation partner. Third, how to subtly make others feel important One of the most common characteristics of human beings is the desire to be admitted wants to be understood . Would you like a duck in relationships do ? Then , please try to make others aware of their importance . Remember, the more you bag factory make people feel self- important people on your return more.