Jealousy is a driving force do?

Modern society emphasizes competition , coupled with the rise of social media , we are always able to " snoop " into the lives of others. Everyone can not help but think : "If I have a good car that can live in a big house , to global travel just fine ." We might even anger : Why do they have so many good things - beauty, status, power love, my share of it ?

When there is a gap between reality and the ideal , the people will Joneses , inner sense of imbalance and cause serious resentment of others , resulting in interpersonal tensions . Jealousy is also closely related with the character . Generally, low self-esteem by jealousy often stronger, high self-esteem were generally weak jealousy . The core is actually jealous of one sentence: I am not good enough or I as well as others . And people just look in the mirror each other in the side " good" mirror that lights up his " not good enough " , that kind of pain will direct excitation "abandoned , ignored" the fear . However , jealousy is a normal emotional experience , including the negative forces ( such as hatred , attacks, etc. ) and a positive force ( such as a strong possessive and have desire ) . Painful jealousy , hatred and attacks because they were taking up the most emotions. If these negative forces into desire and possession of jealousy can be powered . To overcome their jealousy , first ask yourself : What is the thing I am more ? I have exactly what you want ? Owned by someone else is not necessarily what you want to learn to accept , respect , appreciation and empathy . Second, we must find the gap to catch up. What a man jealous , it means that his inferiority complex where also means that where self-esteem , also means that the goal where. Objective analysis of their own situation , to seriously reflect on the advantages of others , how they need to do to reach that level . Enrich their knowledge to focus on to improve their ability , rather than envy the people voted out . Finally, a legitimate way to vent their emotions , such as looking for family or friends to talk ; resolve negative emotions through movement . But also to see their own strengths, explore their own bag manufacturer potential and learn to respect and love yourself .