Four kinds of interpersonal skills

Sometimes it is precisely this distance gap between you and your friends to become the culprit . Remember when talking with friends , bravely step nearer it, you will find standing near, your hearts are also a number of more recent .

1.Conversation, touching each other 's arms During the conversation, the other hand on the arm so that the tiny movements that can help you build a subtle understanding between ! Touch the physical contact between the two sides to meet the good wishes , you will find that your emotions have become peaceful. Soon you will find this little trick to bring you incredible benefits: the face of your request , no feelings of others is no longer a direct say no ! Body language better, but it should also pay attention to propriety , unfamiliar people too close it will strange oh. 2.When chatting with friends , stand near a little Chat with friends and family or even when traveling at any time , we are accustomed with people keeping their safe distance. Everyone's a safe distance from personal experience , cultural background, family environment , and even professional habits determined distance varies , but the distance is not necessarily always produce beautiful, sometimes it is precisely this distance gap between you and your friends to become the culprit. Remember when talking with friends , bravely step nearer it, you will find standing near, your hearts are also a number of more recent . 3.When dealing with people , what you think of his appreciation See residential security escorted a grandmother upstairs, immediately praise him , do not mind that this person had also good, but do not say it, say what you enjoy , it makes you feel secure and happier . Mom told her to do the dishes very tasty , thanks for your boyfriend, wait ten minutes , learn to praise sincere and active people found the advantages of others , immediately praise him , expressed positively and ideas , you have opened their hearts , and the other links to further deepen . Over time, you will find yourself is the biggest beneficiary , you know, more happy than to receive . 4.Do not pout , and laugh Do not think that only good mood to laugh, studies have shown that smiling is actually a psychological pretend feint , just smile this action can make you happier . Of course, the premise is that you are not uncomfortable psychological never been seen . When we smile , the brain will send us a message : I am very happy . Then our body relaxes . And when we smile to others , the person will feel more comfortable, most people will bag factory return with a smile , this virtuous circle indeed make us happier.