Interpersonal skills required to master the difference

Interpersonal communication is more conducive to grasp the difference. U.S. relationships expert, said: "In the majority of the crowd, at least 75% of the people are quite different from our own." Different personalities, each naturally prone to misunderstanding and misconceptions. The deal is good that 75% of the difference, in order to better help you obtain success and happiness. "

Everyone's different style of doing things: some parents resolutely, and the children procrastination; Some wives like then do not say, and the husband used to silence is golden; Some leaders attention to detail, and the subordinate bold aesthetic ...... in many cases, our interpersonal problems are derived from not a good deal with their different personalities, even diametrically opposite person. Experts will people live and lead by the "dominant style" is divided into four main styles model: "analytic", "control type", "Friendly type" and "phenotype." Among them, "- friendly" friendly, easy-going, with a human face, rarely express different opinions; "phenotype" outgoing, active, likes the limelight, willing to listen to praise; "analytic" is the pursuit of perfection, work excellence, attention to detail; while "control type "who act decisively, the pursuit of fast-paced, high efficiency. A lot of people is one of several models of the "mix", but in a particular style oriented. So, how to get along with a variety of different people do? Is to grasp the basic principles of communication "platinum rule": people want you how right he was, you how right he was. Right "Friendly-type" people can provide more emotional support, and they talk about feelings, life aspects of the topic, the atmosphere was cordial and create some of; right "analytic" people should pay attention to the sake of discussion, the reasons for and details of the columns clearly, in order to win their approval; for the "control type" of people, then give them the opportunity to make decisions decisively given several possible options for their choice; while for the "phenotype" of the people, will have to pay attention to timely praise and encouragement, let him get a sense of accomplishment, and give bag factory him some space to play.